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Friday, January 9, 2009

Her FaBulleted Listll in Love

If you want to be "the one", here's how. Or at least, here are things to help you out on the way. Before even reading this, make sure you genuinely care about her.

  1. Make her notice you! If she does, then the easy part is over.
  2. Take your time. If she gives you her number, perfect, but don't beg for it. Call her when you get her number, but not too much. Some days, let her have a chance to call you! This will show her that you guys are willing to keep in contact.
  3. Compliment her when she does something smart or kind. Don't overuse compliments though! Compliment her too much and she'll roll her eyes again and again at your attempts at sweet talk.
  4. Make sure you know things about her. You don't necessarily have to be her best friend, but do be a friend. Let her talk about her feelings with you, and in return try to do the same. But don't pour yourself out. You'll seem weak to her. Unless of course, she asks you to pour yourself, then go ahead. But know how she first felt about you, what her favorite color is and what her favorite book was when she was little. Things like that. But don't over ask.
  5. Be friends with her family. Being a family friend is a good start. You don't want to get off the wrong foot with her family. They sometimes have the power to change her mind if they don't like you. Visit her family and start a good conversation. Nothing like how's the weather. Talk about something you think would interest them. Read the front page of the paper so that you will know what is going on in this world. Then you will have something to talk about and you will not have to try too hard!! Relax!
  6. Get her a small gift. Don't get her the world on its knees. Get her something like a small ring, unless she hates jewelry and can't stand the feel of metal on her skin. Maybe she would like some flowers or a pretty bookmark. If you don't know what she would like, try and figure it out. Here are some meanings women might attribute to various objects--
  7. Ring-Commitment
  8. Hand-Drawn Portrait-Commitment
  9. Stuffed toy--Puppy Love
  10. Flowers: You think she's pretty.
  11. (Note) Do NOT get her something that might scare her or that she might not need or even like (unless of course she has a collection of things like spoons, marbles, stuff like that.)
  12. Meet her friends. Meeting her friends means you're a step up! This means she's willing to accept you into her life. Don't push her to meet them though, let her one day ask "Would you like to meet my friends?" whereupon you quickly answer "Sure!"(If she has friends that are women, do not, NOT, become extreme friends with them, be polite, but not extremely friendly, as this will make her think you might cheat on her with her friends.

Tips on How to Make

Her Fall in Love

  • A simple one here, but one that is often the hardest one to obtain. Be yourself, smile and be honest. You'll find with anyone, just being you is a 100% sure fire way to knowing if you are meant to be or not.
  • Don't over compliment her! If you do, it'll make her extremely bored. But do remember to compliment her sometimes and whenever you really mean it.
  • Don't tease her love by joking about how she could improve in some areas or saying that a 'certain' girl looks extremely pretty today in front of her, not even when you're alone! Especially celebrities.
  • Love is a feeling induced by biochemistry, so learn what situation makes it favorable for a girl to fall in love.
  • Watch the movies boys, it's not rocket science.
  • Girls want something special that only you two share together.
  • Don't ignore her to look cool in front of your friends.
  • Make her feel like she is the one you are thinking about and want to be with and MEAN IT!!!!
  • When you say you are going to CALL, just do it.
  • If it is not working out, then don't drag her on by telling her you miss her the day before you dump her or even after.
  • If you end it end it, don't string her along your twisted web.
  • Don't use 'I was just drunk', as an excuse to get out of anything!!!
  • Look like a strong figure, girls don't like sissies but dont pretend or the girl will find out eventually.
  • Never talk negative about her friends, even if she might be. Just be an ear when she needs one.
  • Don't try to keep her your 'dirty little secret', it will blow up in your face.
  • All women want is just to love and be loved in return.
  • Try and give her the movie kiss she has always wanted.
  • Surprises don't always have to cost anything.
  • Drop the three day calling rule. Don't leave her waiting!! Girls hate that, it leaves them confused and they might start to think that you are cheating on them.
  • make her want you, you have to be special in her eyes, if not what's stopping her from finding another guy?



How to become a millionaire

in 7 easy steps

The road to wealth is not paved with infomercials. Those wee-hour TV staples would have you believe that you'll become "Fantasy Island" rich by placing tiny ads in the classifieds, or by buying up -- for no money down -- distressed property and selling it for millions.

Unfortunately, the only thing you're likely to get from watching those infomercials is dark circles under your eyes from lack of sleep. If you actually go to the seminar or buy the tapes, you'll probably just have more debt.

The truth is, unless you're lucky enough to receive a sizeable inheritance, you'll need to navigate your own route to prosperity. But while Bill Gates-style megawealth may be elusive, becoming a millionaire is definitely within reach of those who start young and develop the right habits. And anyone, at any age, can develop the traits that increase wealth and decrease debt.

"You can have money or you can have stuff, but seldom do you have both early in life," says Jason Flurry, a certified financial planner and president of Legacy Partners Financial Group, Woodstock, Ga.

"Part of our culture is, 'Fake it until you make it.' Debt holds people back. They buy liabilities and they make those payments forever. Spend less than you make, live a modest lifestyle and don't live up to every raise. Some people have spent their prosperity for the next 10 years and they've done it on credit."

It's a matter of choices
Flurry isn't suggesting you decorate your home in plastic lawn furniture, forego cable TV and dine on macaroni and cheese every night. But do you really need to buy a car that's so expensive that you must stretch the payments out five or more years? Do you have to have that 50-inch widescreen HD-ready TV right now?

Many people who choose wealth over "stuff" wouldn't consider spending money on the "latest and greatest" because they know their money can be put to better use elsewhere. Buying a "liability" would probably cause them stress because they'd rather buy an asset -- something that will appreciate over time and give them a return on their investment.

Flurry says he has a hard time getting some of his older clients to spend their money.

"They've been savers all their lives and the thought of spending $5,000 or $10,000 on a vacation is ridiculous; it doesn't matter that they're worth $3 million. They're really the last Depression generation and it's burned in their memory that they need to squirrel away money."

7 steps to wealth
Paring it all down, we've come up with seven steps to becoming wealthy. Remember, wealth is relative, it doesn't necessarily mean "millionaire." The goal for many people is financial independence, says Stewart Welch of The Welch Group in Birmingham, Ala.

"That's the point in time when your cash flow from investments is equal to or greater than your income from work. Look at the statistics: 95 percent of the population never achieves financial independence. For 65 percent of retirees, Social Security is their largest source of retirement income."

The No. 1 reason people don't achieve financial independence, says Welch, is they don't have a written financial plan. So, that is our No. 1 rule for becoming wealthy.

1. Develop a written financial plan
Saying you want to be wealthy isn't good enough. You need to come up with a workable plan and put it on paper.

"The written plan forces you to do something," Welch says. "Calculate what you need to earn and how to invest. The plan isn't just the goal, it's the whole thing -- the dream, the goals, the options. The options are scenario planning -- all the ways you can accomplish that goal -- open a Roth IRA, contribute to a 401(k).

2. Save, save, save
The end result of your financial plan should be systematic investment. Get in the habit of saving money. Build an emergency fund in a money market account so you don't have to raid the rest of your savings and investments when there's an unexpected major expense. Make it a point to save at least half of every pay raise


3. Live below your means

Don't be a walking billboard for overpriced designer clothes, shoes, sunglasses or jewelry. Don't allow your house or car payments to be budget-busters.

4. Lay off the credit
Some people say that if you can eat it or wear it, don't put it on your credit card. That's good advice, but take it further. Try not putting anything on your cards that you can't pay off in two or three months. You need only one or two credit cards. If you have a fistful, pay them off. Remember, debt holds you back.

"It reduces cash flow for other things, including investing," says Welch. "If no one gave you money to borrow, you'd be better off and the economy would be smaller. If they only let you borrow 75 percent of the value of your home, you'd be a heck of a lot better off."

5. Make your money work for you
It takes money to make money, but that doesn't mean you need a lot to invest. Open an account with a mutual fund company that has no-load funds and low expense ratios. Build a diverse portfolio and you can reasonably expect to earn 8 percent to 10 percent annually on your investments over the long haul.

6. Start your own business
In the 1996 book
The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America's Wealthy, the authors state that two-thirds of the millionaires are self-employed, with 75 percent of them entrepreneurs, and the remainder professionals such as doctors and accountants.

"The idea that most people inherit wealth is outdated. A lot is built through businesses. Business creation is the No. 1 driver of wealth in this country," says Zultowski.

7. Get professional advice
A good financial planner can help you fill your portfolio with the right investments and dump the wrong ones. You don't need to relinquish control, but you do need to form a good working relationship with someone who has expertise in this complicated area.

"About 76 percent of those surveyed are actively involved in the day-to-day management of their financial affairs," notes Zultowski. "They get involved; they learn about finances, they're not day traders. They work with advisers but ultimately make their own decisions."

If you can't afford to have a financial planner manage your money, many of them will review your portfolio and make recommendations for a one-time fee.



Wednesday, January 7, 2009

What a NiCe New year Resolution!!

The year had passed by.This is another year to face,my new year's resolution is to make my body slim because as what I had observed,and what my friends observed ,I am so ChuBBy..!!!.I will change all my negative attitudes into positive one.I will be more serious in my studies,Cause i dont want to be failed my studies.And no more cheating at all.The year,I will be more religious and god-fearing person.But I dont know if I can do it,but I will try my very best just to do it.!!!

Monday, January 5, 2009

what a nice Christmas!!..bwahahaha..

December is a month where we celebrate the Christmas.The month we celebrate the birth of
our savior Jesus Christ.Christmas is all we've waiting for.The ay of giving & Loving.For me,it was the happiest ay in every year,because that day we will be together with my ultimate friends,they are Jeffrey Petallo,Jepthe Gerarman,Gziel Lora,Astrid Jeanette Bersabal and Carissa Jane Obial.

We shared anykind of happinengs like singing making "Corny Jokes"..jajajaja..and also we drink like alcoholic drinks.jejeje...but not too much and also we shared stories about our lives about school and universities we are studying while eating our favorite foods and we watch a beautiful fireworks display .In my family also we exchage gift to each other and we cooked some foods for us to eat in noche buena.I can say that this was a very wonderful christmas I've experience because I spent with my BarKada's and Family